3 Traits Hot and Beautiful Women Look For in Men

It's natural and intuitive for women to associate confidence as the final piece to a "complete" man. Complete in this sense means a man who has the full package. One who knows what he wants and is able to give her security.

Many men just lack this positive trait. Hence, once you acquire it, it puts you at the cream of the top, above most men, making you the next eligible bachelor.

Trait #2 - Decisiveness

Men that are decisive attract women naturally. Again, women associate decisiveness as masculinity and in most cases, women just prefer to leave decision making to men. The trouble with most men is that they fear to make decisions as they are afraid their decisions be wrong.

It's irrational but men just fall into this trap. So, do yourself a favor. Start making decisions now and do your best to keep to it. Women will respect you for it.

Trait #3 - Emotional Toughness

Unlike men, women tend to consider physical attractiveness as not the most important priority when dating men. Instead, women tend to look for the 'insider' qualities such as personality etc. And one such quality is emotional toughness. Imagine this scenario, one day your girl comes rushing to you in tears, nerves jittery and instead of supporting her, you get affected by her negative emotions. What happens? Would she feel safe being with you?

You probably be thinking that's not going to happen, after all, you are a guy. However, in dire traits, men do break down at times. And it takes character to have that emotional toughness to support her.

Why You Cannot Attract Or Date Hot and Beautiful Women

Have you been wondering why you are not able to attract hot and beautiful women, and get the chance to date her? I can help you to discover the reason. I need you to answer this question honestly, "Are you worthy of hot and beautiful women?"

Would you like Erica Durance or Kelly Hu to be your girlfriend? Do you think you are worthy of these beautiful women (Erica Durance and Kelly Hu)? Are you fit to be her (one of them) boyfriend? If you truly desire this type of woman to be your girl, you need to have the confidence and feel qualified. What you lack is real confidence.

You need to feel you are qualified and deserve hot and beautiful women, then you can attract beautiful girls into your life and have the chance to date her.

Most of the time, you have have tons of reasons to tell yourself why you are disqualified to be her boyfriend. Why don't you turn things around for good sake? Find 10 or even 20 reasons you are qualified to be hot and beautiful woman's boyfriend.

When you begin to change your mindset and beliefs, you will start to notice things will begin to change. You will begin to attract more hot and beautiful women, you will have more opportunity to talk to them.

Start changing your mindset and beliefs now, and you will attract hot and beautiful women into your life. Not only will you attract hot babes, your attitude and actions will change and improve as you believe you are worthy of high quality women, not any other girls.

First thing you need to do is nothing else but change your mindset and beliefs, and then you will realize your life will begin to change.

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Attracting Beautiful Women - Secret Techniques and Methods

The majority of men have enormous difficulty comprehending the mind of a beautiful women. Given that some men have a successful love life, when questioned further they often have no idea why that is so. The ability to attract beautiful women does not have to be a dream or a fantasy for you. It is a learned thing and you need to know what to say and what to do in order to attract beautiful women. Naturally one would expect if you were wealthy, famous and possessed film star qualities then those traits would explain the ability to attract beautiful women, and in some cases that's what really works, like after all is Brad Pitt married to a Safeways check out chick? However women often look beyond these qualities to find love and in many cases they flock to men who have few obvious intangible assets. Men need to understand what goes through their minds when they meet an attractive women and they also need to interpret what the women is thinking and feeling at the same time so they can adjust their behaviour to take advantage of the situation. If somehow you could discover how to develop these hidden insights talents and qualities, then you would have incredible success in attracting beautiful women.

Before looking at the physical aspects, you really need to want to be with a beautiful woman. You need to have a deep seated desire to be with a beautiful woman and almost before the event happens you need to visualise how it's going to be when you are talking to her over dinner. You need to know what you are going to say to her on the phone when you ask her out, and ultimately you need to know how you will handle it when she invites you back to her place. You also must be aware that there will be rejected too, so be prepared for that.

To build a relationship with a beautiful woman is the prime objective here, so on that theme dependability is one of the most important assets a man can posses. All women go through times of mood swings, depression, ill health and in particular extreme disappointment with other men. I would estimate that over 80% of women in their 40's have had one and maybe two if not more tragic relationships with men in their life. So these problems act as a roadblock to you as a new guy on the scene. If you can empathise with these issues, then you will be the man who is there when she needs you, and then you will have no trouble building a relationship with her.

Women love self confident men. Their men need to handle and successfully negotiate difficult situations with cool calmness. Successfully negotiating these situations can give a man the authority women respect and admire. When you loose your cool under tough conditions, then you look like a looser and, well, honestly, women don't like losers.

Along with the self confidence theme, women like men who can make them laugh. Maybe this goes hand in hand with the bad relationship scenario whereby women like to be lifted out of their bad past experiences. It's a proven fact that you can't have two conflicting experiences existing in your mind concurrently so, when you are happy and laughing you can't possibly be sad - it's a fact and women know this, Don't however laugh at her expense - that's a sure killer.

It seems clearly obvious but to attract beautiful woman you can't be boring. Beautiful women know they are beautiful and they know they have abundant choices in the man world so if you are boring and you sit in a dark corner then you will not even get noticed. Beautiful women love to be around fun adventurous men. They like unpredictability and they like men who dare to take chances. They like a sense of humour as well as the traditional 'Bad Boy' and rebellious attitude where a guy says what he means and means what he says. A bit of the adventurous element goes a long way with a beautiful woman.

A sense of attention is paramount. Remember what she says, her favourite foods, likes, dislikes, favourite activities, music, books etc. After all you won't build a relationship with a women when you portray totally opposite interests. However don't rush out to her favourite restaurant on the first date and then treat her to all the stated interests in one swoop. Plan your activities to impress her slowly by introducing temptations gradually, hold back because you'll always need another trump card to play at the next date to blow her away and then you can show her that you really listened and cared about what she said last date. Springing a surprise night on her or a weekend in Paris goes down really well (trust me) because beautiful women love spontaneity, and if you play things right, if you are cool and you do things at your own pace rather than hers then you've really got it made. Also bear in mind that women love men who aren't afraid to be different, so be creative.

It's also obvious that personal appearance is a critical factor in attracting beautiful woman. You need to be dressed to perfection and you need to look sharp to attract beautiful women. Considering that on your first date the lady has agreed to meet you, and then she has gone to the effort to make herself beautiful in order to attract you, so look sharp and dress to perfection. Wear neat shoes and polish them if required. Women notice shoes from a distance and they will decide if you are approachable or not based on these aspects.

Steve Brown is an Internet Marketer, Business Manager and Consultant who's passions include helping people, fine wines, sailing, flying and building aeroplanes.

Beautiful women

Beautiful women abound. They are everywhere. You see them at work, on the streets, in restaurants and in the bars. You see them on the arms of men, average men. If beautiful women are attracted to average looking guys then what is the secret to attracting beautiful women?

First:

You must get rid of your fear of approaching beautiful women. How do you do this? You need to change your mind set. You must first realize and accept that a beautiful woman is still just a woman. Often beautiful women don't even realize how beautiful they are. You must also realize that a lot of beautiful women don't get approached by men. Men think these women are 'out of their league'. They are afraid to approach them. Change your mindset and realize that beautiful women, like every other woman out there, want a stable, fun, interesting guy. They aren't interested in the over strutting alpha male. They aren't interested in the self centred good looking guy who always winds up in competition with her for everyone's attention. The beautiful woman does not want a jealous man. By changing your mindset and realizing that beautiful women want good guys who are fun you will realize that you can approach them and they are not out of your league.

Second:

Now that you've changed your mind set you need to learn how to approach and flirt with the woman you're attracted to. Approaching her starts with you attracting her attention. How do you do this? With your body language. Your body language must show that you are confident and safe. This means head up, shoulders back, comfortable pace. You must not scurry around with your head down, nor strut like a peacock. Walk into the place with confidence, taking up space and you will attract her attention.

Her attention is now on you. Make eye contact. Look deeply into her eyes and then look away. Shift slightly as though she's made you a little 'uncomfortable'. You know what I mean. Wait a couple minutes and look back at her. Make eye contact again but this time look away quickly. Act like you don't want her catching you looking at her, but in truth that is exactly what you want. Now walk up to her and ask her name. Remember her name. Use it. Ask if you can join her, if she's receptive and says yes then start flirting right away with her. Use your body, lean in, casually touch her and then pull back. Let your body start the flirting. Then as the conversation is flowing drop a verbal flirt or tease. Just enough to give her a hint that you may be interested but nothing blatant. Women and this includes beautiful women, do not like the obvious. They love to be challenged. They want mystery and intrigue. Flirting with a woman should leave the woman wondering, is he interested or isn't he.

Third:

The best way to attract a beautiful woman is by being a man of high social value. High social value shows the woman you have a personality that attracts people. It tells her you are in demand and it tells her that you probably don't need her. Like I said above, women love to be challenged so if it appears that you don't need her she'll be more interested. What is high social value?

The man with high social value is the man who has a large group of friends and acquaintances. He is the man who is not alone in the bar. He easily flows from one group of people to another. He is the man who is surrounded by both men and woman. A lot of people believe that these types of men are born that way. That they themselves can never achieve that level of social value. But this is not true. Any man can increase his social value. You do this by improving your communication skills, by learning to make every person in your group feel important and by being confident.

Start building your offline social circle. Do this by going out after work with the group. Do this by inviting a friend or two out as a group and by asking them to invite others. Then take the time to talk to the people in the group. Don't just stick to the one or two people you know. Talk to everyone. Show interest in their day, their lives, their occupations and so on. As your social circle grows so does your social value. Beautiful women are attracted to men with high social value.

A lot of guys think that going out with a group hinders their chances with a woman. This is not true, in fact the exact opposite is true. So if you want to attract beautiful women you're best bet is to be a man of high social value. Go out in groups. Make sure there is a mix of ages and men and women in your group.

To attract beautiful women you must first change your mindset. You must accept that beautiful women are just like any other woman. They want a man they can count on, one who is fun, a little daring but reliable. They are not out of your league. Once you've found the beautiful woman you want, learn to approach and flirt with her. Build your social value. Be a man of high social value and you will attract beautiful women.



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