Beautiful women

Beautiful women abound. They are everywhere. You see them at work, on the streets, in restaurants and in the bars. You see them on the arms of men, average men. If beautiful women are attracted to average looking guys then what is the secret to attracting beautiful women?

First:

You must get rid of your fear of approaching beautiful women. How do you do this? You need to change your mind set. You must first realize and accept that a beautiful woman is still just a woman. Often beautiful women don't even realize how beautiful they are. You must also realize that a lot of beautiful women don't get approached by men. Men think these women are 'out of their league'. They are afraid to approach them. Change your mindset and realize that beautiful women, like every other woman out there, want a stable, fun, interesting guy. They aren't interested in the over strutting alpha male. They aren't interested in the self centred good looking guy who always winds up in competition with her for everyone's attention. The beautiful woman does not want a jealous man. By changing your mindset and realizing that beautiful women want good guys who are fun you will realize that you can approach them and they are not out of your league.

Second:

Now that you've changed your mind set you need to learn how to approach and flirt with the woman you're attracted to. Approaching her starts with you attracting her attention. How do you do this? With your body language. Your body language must show that you are confident and safe. This means head up, shoulders back, comfortable pace. You must not scurry around with your head down, nor strut like a peacock. Walk into the place with confidence, taking up space and you will attract her attention.

Her attention is now on you. Make eye contact. Look deeply into her eyes and then look away. Shift slightly as though she's made you a little 'uncomfortable'. You know what I mean. Wait a couple minutes and look back at her. Make eye contact again but this time look away quickly. Act like you don't want her catching you looking at her, but in truth that is exactly what you want. Now walk up to her and ask her name. Remember her name. Use it. Ask if you can join her, if she's receptive and says yes then start flirting right away with her. Use your body, lean in, casually touch her and then pull back. Let your body start the flirting. Then as the conversation is flowing drop a verbal flirt or tease. Just enough to give her a hint that you may be interested but nothing blatant. Women and this includes beautiful women, do not like the obvious. They love to be challenged. They want mystery and intrigue. Flirting with a woman should leave the woman wondering, is he interested or isn't he.

Third:

The best way to attract a beautiful woman is by being a man of high social value. High social value shows the woman you have a personality that attracts people. It tells her you are in demand and it tells her that you probably don't need her. Like I said above, women love to be challenged so if it appears that you don't need her she'll be more interested. What is high social value?

The man with high social value is the man who has a large group of friends and acquaintances. He is the man who is not alone in the bar. He easily flows from one group of people to another. He is the man who is surrounded by both men and woman. A lot of people believe that these types of men are born that way. That they themselves can never achieve that level of social value. But this is not true. Any man can increase his social value. You do this by improving your communication skills, by learning to make every person in your group feel important and by being confident.

Start building your offline social circle. Do this by going out after work with the group. Do this by inviting a friend or two out as a group and by asking them to invite others. Then take the time to talk to the people in the group. Don't just stick to the one or two people you know. Talk to everyone. Show interest in their day, their lives, their occupations and so on. As your social circle grows so does your social value. Beautiful women are attracted to men with high social value.

A lot of guys think that going out with a group hinders their chances with a woman. This is not true, in fact the exact opposite is true. So if you want to attract beautiful women you're best bet is to be a man of high social value. Go out in groups. Make sure there is a mix of ages and men and women in your group.

To attract beautiful women you must first change your mindset. You must accept that beautiful women are just like any other woman. They want a man they can count on, one who is fun, a little daring but reliable. They are not out of your league. Once you've found the beautiful woman you want, learn to approach and flirt with her. Build your social value. Be a man of high social value and you will attract beautiful women.



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